The idea of marriage started with God. Before we try to redefine marriage today we should consider the original definition given by the Creator when He put the first man and woman together on this earth: The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.” That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh (Genesis 2:23,24).
That union should be so strong and so permanent that it can represent the love God Himself has for us. Human marriage on earth should be a beautiful illustration of God’s intent to be joined together forever with us in heaven. We may fail each other but God’s love never fails. True to His Word, Jesus will return for His bride, those who have relationship with Him, and will bring us back to live with Him forever. It sounds like a fairy tale wedding because many fairy tales were actually written as allegories to teach us about this future reality.
This is how the apostle John described his revelation of heaven: I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and He will dwell with them. They will be His people, and God Himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away” (Revelation 21:2-5).
Now that’s a wedding worth waiting for!