Read today’s texts first: Ecclesiastes 10-12; Psalms 94; Ephesians 5
“A fool is consumed by his own lips. At the beginning his words are folly; at the end they are wicked madness!”
All three of our readings today agree on the power of words, for good or for bad. I just had several significant conversations on the job with residents and their family members. What I read this morning changed the way I handled those moments, and they were no doubt better because I held back my words.
I tend to under-listen and over-talk. I know we have two ears and one mouth for a reason, but when I get caught up in an engaging discussion, I usually jump in with both feet - firmly planted in my mouth. Afterwards, I often regret my empty words and wish I could be more like Kwai Chang Caine of the classic 70’s show, Kung Fu. Kwai didn’t talk much, but when he did he was like E.F. Hutton (with a half-Chinese accent) - people listened!
Words from a wise man’s mouth are gracious, but a fool is consumed by his own lips. At the beginning his words are folly; at the end they are wicked madness - and the fool multiplies words (10:12-14).
How long will the wicked, O Lord, how long will the wicked be jubilant? They pour out arrogant words; all the evildoers are full of boasting. They crush your people, O Lord; they oppress your inheritance (94:3-5).
Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. Therefore do not be partners with them.... Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ (5:6,7,19-20).
These are wise words about wise words. “Lord, may I speak less and listen more, especially to You. When I finally do talk, may I speak Your wise words, not my own foolishness.”
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